Sex & Pleasure - FAQs
Having sex
Why do people want to have sex?
There are many different reasons people have sex. Although the list below is not an exhaustive one ~ it outlines some of the common reasons people have sex.
Sexual activity can help partners feel connected to one another. Sex is a way to express love and celebrate intimacy and closeness.
- Sex can feel pleasurable - if both partners consent.
- To conceive a child.
- Some people have sex because of peer pressure ~ they may think they will be more accepted by their friends if they have sex.
- To experiment – they are curious about sex.
- To feel appreciated and accepted by a partner.
Before you have sex, it is important to ask yourself the reasons why you want to. It’s also important that you and your partner talk about each others’ sexual limitations and boundaries before you have sex. Sex is a very personal decision – and it is your decision to make. There should not be any pressure, manipulation or force when it comes to having sex – if this is the case, know it is not your fault – please speak with someone right away. You can always call Peel Public Health at 905 799 7700 and speak to a Public Health Nurse.
