Communicating About Sex - FAQs
Talking about Sex
Is there any easy way to get over the awkwardness of talking about sex? I do not talk to anyone about it because I do not think they would understand how overwhelming the thought is.
You are right, talking about sex is difficult to do.
This is a very personal subject that is hard to talk about with others. Most people feel the same way you do. First, we suggest you identify people in your life that you trust and would feel comfortable talking about personal topics with. Once you feel comfortable with the idea of talking about sex try using natural situations to get into this discussion – this might curb the awkwardness. For example, while watching television shows, movies, or listening to the radio where a sexual scene or comment is shown – you can ask questions related to what you have seen – that way the question about sex is a natural development. To feel more comfortable you can practice openers to start this conversation with those you have identified as safe and trustworthy. For example, “Can I talk to you about something personal that has been on my mind?”; or “I heard…have you heard the same?”.
It is normal to be curious and to feel overwhelmed about sexuality.
